Oh! That terrific feeling of loving someone and the anxiety of guessing the signs if he’s into you. It can be hard if the person you love doesn’t love you back. You do not want to invest your emotions on someone who will not reciprocate your feelings.
Sometimes the signs are right there in front of us but we are so blinded by love that we completely ignore them. Being in love is nice but being a fool in love is a big no-no. It is better to know before you fall deeper in love and get disappointed later.
There are some clear signs that he’s into you. We will help you find out. So go on reading and figure out whether he’s into you or not.
1. He Expresses His Love
The first and obvious give away is that he will express his love for you. Men can have a hard time expressing their emotions so if he is saying it out loud that he likes you and loves spending time with you then it’s a sign he’s into you.
He’ll do everything to make you feel good and loved. He will go out of his way to express that. And it may not be through words alone, it will show in his actions. So keep all your senses awake to catch the sign he’s into you.
2. He Makes Plans to Meet
He will take the initiative and be the first one to call. He will be on top of things and know your schedule well ahead to plan a date. He will leave cute little texts for you.
If you are on your first date and you what to know he’s into you then don’t be the first one to call. Wait for him to call you. If he’s into you then he will definitely call you first.
Men are persistent when it comes to love. If he likes you then he will be the first to initiate the next date plan. Even if he is busy, he will try to take out time for you.
3. He Is Happy with You
Another sign he’s into you is that he is happy to be with you. Men usually can’t hide their feelings. It will show on their faces. If he looks visibly happy then know for sure that he’s into you. He will also not be afraid to let out his unabashed laughter, the one he only lets out with his friends.
If he’s not into you then he will not show his teeth. It’s a body language behavior. Trust us. He will only let out a restrained smile. So, if your guy is laughing heartily with you then it’s a sign he’s into you.
4. He Gets Nervous Around You
If your guy is playing with his necktie or stumbling over his words while talking to you then it’s a sign he’s into you. He is a cool and confident type of guy but his palms sweat when he holds your hand. Or when you are on a date he will fiddle with his glass.
These are the signs of nervousness and when you like someone you get nervous around them. So, either he’s into you or you are in a very hot room for him to start sweating. Just make sure you are reading the signs correctly.
5. He Pays Attention
A sign that he’s into you is when he pays attention to every detail about you. What you like, what you wear, how you do your hair. He will notice the slightest change and will compliment you at every chance he gets.
He will remember your likes and dislikes. He will know your favorites. He will care about your needs and make sure that you are content and comfortable when you are with him.
He will ask you before booking a restaurant or ordering a meal. He will consider your choices before making a decision. You might think it is possessiveness but men get a little possessive when they are in love.
6. He Listens
He will listen to you attentively when you are talking. He will take an interest in what you have to share. He will never cut you in between and start a different topic. You will have his undivided attention when you are with him.
You will get occasional feedback which shows that he was listening to you. If you share a problem, he will show his concern and follow up on your well being. He will be interested in your life and you as a person. He will ask you questions and want to know more about you. The biggest sign is that he will look into your eyes when you are talking, this shows he’s into you.
7. He Finds Excuses to Touch You
He really likes you if he finds excuses to be near you, physically, and gently touch you. He will always meet you with a warm hug. When you are talking he will brush the strands of your hair aside. He will sit beside you and will try to be close to you.
He will lean towards you while you talk and put his hand on your knee. He will casually touch your arms while walking together. He will hold your hand when you are walking in a crowd. He will do all these small gestures to show his affection. You can take it from us that these are signs he’s into you.
8. He Will Blush Around You
Does your man have pink cheeks around you all the time? Either he is very healthy or totally in love with you because he is blushing when he sees you. If he turns red when he sees you then it’s a sign he’s into you.
His pupils will dilate and his smile will reach his eyes. It is also a body language sign that says that he really likes you and is happy to see you. But before you take it as a sign just make sure that it’s not the alcohol that is causing the cheeks to turn red.
9. He Will Open up to You
Men usually don’t talk about their emotions and they will only open up to someone they feel really close to. If he likes you then he will tell you everything that he has bottled up inside. He will share his fears and insecurities and let you in on his secrets.
It is a sign that he’s into you if he is comfortable sharing his deep emotions with you. He will want you to know everything about him. He will not be afraid to show his weakness and vulnerability. He will share his future plans, hopes, and aspirations with you.
10. You Can Be Yourself
You feel comfortable to be yourself with him. He lets you be and enjoys that you show your true self to him. He doesn’t question you on what you are wearing or how you are conducting yourself in public. He doesn’t ask you to talk softly or not to laugh so loud.
You want to open up to him because you know that he will not judge you. You will even tell him your embarrassing moments and laugh along with him. You can share your silly hobbies and not feel embarrassed. If your man is like that then don’t let him go cause it’s a sign he’s into you.
11. Observe His Body Language
Body language is a telltale sign whether he’s into you or not. There are many signs that men will show if they like you. If you can read his body language you will be able to tell if he’s into you or not.
The most common sign is that he will stare into your eyes. He will look directly at you and you can see the love and admiration in his eyes. Another sign is that he will always lean towards you when he is talking and lower his voice. This shows that he is attracted to you and not afraid to show his vulnerability.
When he sees you he will raise his eyebrows. This signifies that he likes you and is happy to see you and want to see more of you.
12. He Introduces You to His Friends
If your man is into you then he will introduce you to his friends and loved ones. He will try to include you in his close circle. He would want his friends to know you and he would hope that you get closer to them. He will take you to his usual hangout spots and share all the stories.
If he only talks about his friends but makes no effort to arrange a meeting with them then take it as a sign that he’s not into you. He is not comfortable sharing this side of him and he wants to separate it with the time spent with you.
Conclusion
These were some of the signs to tell you whether he’s into you or not. This information will make you better equipped to read your man but always remember that a woman’s instinct is the best judge.
If you don’t feel loved in a relationship then you should move out of it. It is not good for you. The more you wait thinking that you might change his heart, the more toxic it will become for you.
Your man should treat you with respect and give you the love that you deserve. He should be there for you when you want but also give you space when you need.
A relationship takes two people to make it work. If you are the only one putting all the effort then it is not worth it. Move out when there is still time.
So, please spare those flowers and stop plucking the petals one by one, chanting “he loves me, he loves me not.” Just read the signs and you’ll know if he’s into you.
We hope this blog post helped you clear your mind. If you have any questions or suggestions leave your comments below.
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