{"id":727,"date":"2017-06-15T12:36:05","date_gmt":"2017-06-15T12:36:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.getmyexbacknow.com\/?p=727"},"modified":"2022-11-15T06:38:11","modified_gmt":"2022-11-15T06:38:11","slug":"top-memories-remind-ex-get-back","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.getmyexbacknow.com\/blog\/top-memories-remind-ex-get-back\/","title":{"rendered":"Top Memories To Remind Your Ex To Get Him Back"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

The period that follows a breakup can be emotionally unbearable, especially when you find yourself feeling like the loneliest person in the world. Many women try to get over these uncomfortable feelings by jumping into a new relationship. But deep inside they are still lonely and grieving the loss of the person they truly loved.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

There are some women who manage to brave the situation by concentrating on other positive things in their lives. But if you think that you\u2019ll never be same without your ex, and believe that a small flame still burns, you can try to get him back into your life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Breakups cannot be blamed on one person alone. If you can list all of his faults, then you had better be able to list yours as well. However, if you are trying to gather the shattered pieces of your relationship and rebuild it, you need to drop the blame game tactics, because it will only push him away even more.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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You are way better off trying something that will get him thinking positively about you once again. When trying to build something from ashes you need to let go of trivial issues as much as you need to work on your past mistakes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You do not want to remind him about the bad times, that\u2019s just going to make him doubtful about the possibility of the relationship ever working out again. There must have been some sweet memories that can make him feel good about the relationship once again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#1. The First Time When You Met<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The first encounter is always special. Back then you barely knew each other, and yet there was something drawing you together. Whatever made you guys part ways, must have started later on in the relationship. In the beginning it was like a dream. So, the best place to make a fresh start is by taking him down memory lane, when everything was wonderful.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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#2. When You Celebrated Something Together<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The best part about being in a relationship is being able to share your achievements and failures. Remind him about the times you celebrated something together, whether it was his birthday, a new job, or an anniversary. Celebrations are always fun and are reminders of the good times. Looking back on those moments is certainly going to lift his spirits.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. Vacations You Took Together<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

If it was a long-term relationship then you probably took a few vacations together. Remind him of the places you discovered together and how excited you both were. If he is a foodie, talk about the exotic dishes that you tried together while on your holiday. Also revisit any funny or unexpected incidents that you experienced as couple during a trip. Keep in mind, you\u2019re taking him down memory lane, so it\u2019s best to refrain from bringing up anything that you\u2019d rather forget about those vacations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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#4. The Movies You Watched Together<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Movies make great for conversation and if your ex has a keen interest in movies, then you can talk about the movies you watched together. Talking about the best and the worst movies you watched together, and your thoughts on different actor will help remind him about all the fun you used to have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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#5. Songs That You Both Enjoyed<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Music is a great way to connect, and if it was something that you both really connected on, you will do yourself a big favor by talking about that connection. Talk about the songs that you listened to together, how they make you feel, and what they mean to you. Finding a way to play those songs to him during your conversations will have an even bigger impact than only talking about them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#6. Anything Else That You Connected On<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

There can be plenty of subjects that a couple connects on. Choose a topic that you both enjoyed talking about and never got bored of. If you are in the same profession, all the better, because you\u2019ll be able to relate on so many levels. Some couples like to discuss science and technology, while others share interest in history. If you shared common places of interest, remind him of those as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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#7. Have Dinner At A Restaurant Where You Used To Go Often<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Every couple has a favorite restaurant, which they found cozy, comforting, and all theirs. Plan an evening and visit that place together once again. It will surely revive some precious memories of your relationship. If you used to find it comfortable back then, you are likely to find it just as welcoming even now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

#8. Hang Out With The Same Group of Friends<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Start hanging out with the same group of friends. If you have a common group of friends then it is easier to reconnect, since they are likely to have shared in some good memories from your time together. More importantly, having those friends around helps get rid of any awkwardness there might be. Let your friends remind him just how good those times were.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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It\u2019s not easy rebuilding a broken relationship, but if you feel that despite everything that led to the breakup you still had the best time of your life with him, it is worth a try. Getting him to remember all the fun, special, wonderful, and beautiful times you shared, might make him want to reconsider the relationship and start over again. Although it is important to work on the mistakes that led to the breakup, it\u2019s not helpful to bring them up in the initial stages of getting back together. It\u2019s better to keep that for later, when you guys have gotten close enough again to start discussing where it went wrong.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

The period that follows a breakup can be emotionally unbearable, especially when you find yourself feeling like the loneliest person in the world. Many women try to get over these uncomfortable feelings by jumping into a new relationship. But deep inside they are still lonely and grieving the loss of the person they truly loved….<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6,"featured_media":733,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[237],"tags":[],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":237,"label":"Relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/www.getmyexbacknow.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/couple-2180541_1280-1024x681.jpg",1024,681,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Jenny","author_link":"https:\/\/www.getmyexbacknow.com\/author\/jennystrosser\/"},"comment_info":28,"category_info":[{"term_id":237,"name":"Relationship","slug":"relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":237,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Whether you're struggling with communication, conflict resolution, or simply want to learn how to be a better partner, we can help. Check out our blog for articles on relationships and get tips from relationship experts.","parent":0,"count":47,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":237,"category_count":47,"category_description":"Whether you're struggling with communication, conflict resolution, or simply want to learn how to be a better partner, we can help. Check out our blog for articles on relationships and get tips from relationship experts.","cat_name":"Relationship","category_nicename":"relationship","category_parent":0}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.getmyexbacknow.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/727"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.getmyexbacknow.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.getmyexbacknow.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.getmyexbacknow.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/6"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.getmyexbacknow.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=727"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.getmyexbacknow.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/727\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4015,"href":"https:\/\/www.getmyexbacknow.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/727\/revisions\/4015"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.getmyexbacknow.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/733"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.getmyexbacknow.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=727"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.getmyexbacknow.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=727"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.getmyexbacknow.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=727"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}