{"id":708,"date":"2017-06-02T12:33:53","date_gmt":"2017-06-02T12:33:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.getmyexbacknow.com\/?p=708"},"modified":"2022-11-15T06:39:12","modified_gmt":"2022-11-15T06:39:12","slug":"10-tips-break-new-boyfriend-get-ex-back","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.getmyexbacknow.com\/blog\/10-tips-break-new-boyfriend-get-ex-back\/","title":{"rendered":"10 Tips To Break Up With Your New Boyfriend To Get Your Ex Back"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Many women think it will be easier to move on after a heart-breaking breakup if they start dating someone else. But little do they realize that it will only make things more difficult for them. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are still recuperating after a breakup, do not try to find solace in someone else. You might end up in a relationship that you never wanted.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you hastily decided to be with someone to cope with a breakup, and you still feel a strong attraction towards your former partner, then you are probably in a rebound relationship. If you really liked the person you are currently with, you wouldn\u2019t have felt that way about your ex.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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However, if you are reading this, you have already realized this part. And you know that it will be a wise move to let go of your current boyfriend without dragging things any further.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tips On How To Break Up With Your Current Boyfriend<\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Breakups are never a pleasant experience. They often entail suffering for one or both parties involved. In this case, whatever you do, you are still going to hurt your current boyfriend by breaking up with him. But remind yourself that you would probably hurt him more by staying with him when you still wish you were with your ex.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#1. Be Sure About What You Want<\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Are you 100%t sure about your decision? Are you sure it\u2019s your ex who you want to be with? Before you make a move, ask yourself these questions, and try to be absolutely honest with yourself. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You don\u2019t want to make a wrong move and regret later. Always remember, if you broke up with someone, there was a reason behind it. And the fact remains that whatever it was, you two were unable to overcome it together. Hence, think twice before you make a decision.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#2. A Break and a Breakup<\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

If you still want to go ahead and break up with your current boyfriend, then try to be truthful. Don\u2019t say you need a break because that would be unethical. A break and a breakup do not mean the same thing. And telling him you need a break would mean you want to keep him hanging. If you\u2019re sure you want to get your ex back, don\u2019t keep the new guy hanging. It\u2019s just mean.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#3. How to Tell Him<\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

You can\u2019t do much to change your own feelings about the situation, but you can certainly make it less hurtful for him. One way to do so is by choosing a suitable place and time to break the news to him. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Try to postpone it if your boyfriend is going through a tough phase in life, like the death of a family member, or tremendous pressure at work. And when you are telling him that you can no longer be together, make sure there is no one else around, as that can be very embarrassing.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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#4. Don\u2019t Breakup Over a Medium<\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Breaking up by phone, text, or social media may look like you are trying not to face the truth yourself. Don\u2019t have someone else deliver the news for you either. You should meet up with your boyfriend personally and explain it to him. When you are saying something yourself, the tone of your voice will also make a lot of difference. If it\u2019s a long distance relationship, you can set up a video call, and speak to him directly.<\/span>  \"\"<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#5. Keep Calm While Breaking Up<\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s your responsibility to remain calm while breaking up with your boyfriend since it\u2019s him who is on the receiving end. You need to be sensitive if he breaks down. Surely it will come as a shock to him, but try to be as understanding, and sensitive as possible.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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#6. Be Transparent<\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Don\u2019t lie or do not try to deceive your boyfriend. He deserves to know the truth. There shouldn\u2019t be anything hidden between you. Make sure you choose your words carefully, without being too harsh. It\u2019s better to decide beforehand what you\u2019re going to say, and how you\u2019re going to say it. You can rehearse in front of the mirror and prepare yourself before you speak.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#7. Be Polite, But Firm<\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019ve made up your mind about ending this relationship and starting fresh with your ex, then you need to be firm, but polite at the same time. You may get emotional seeing him break down, but don\u2019t be weak and change your mind. It won\u2019t lead to a fulfilling relationship for either of you.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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#8. Be Careful About Trying to be Friends<\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Let\u2019s face facts. It\u2019s difficult to be \u201cjust friends\u201d with an ex. Once you break up, you shouldn\u2019t look back. Remaining friends will not help your boyfriend get over you. This will not only hamper the progress with your ex, but also prevent your current boyfriend from moving on completely.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#9. Try Not To Make Him Feel Bad About Himself<\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Try not to tell him anything that will make him feel he is not worth you. That can deliver a blow to his self-confidence. Tell him that it\u2019s not his fault that you are breaking up. Don\u2019t put the blame on him, and point out his faults. Try to sound as reasonable as you can.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

#10. Give Him Some Space<\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

After you break the news to him, he may want to be left alone. Give him that space, and don\u2019t try to be overly concerned as that will make him weaker. If he is still not ready to give up on you, try to push him away gently without being too rude. However, you might need to be a bit firm at the same time else he might become persistent.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Breaking up is a painful process, whether it is you who is doing the breaking up or your boyfriend. Often the only consolation is that time heals everything. Maybe a year later you will the guy you really wanted to be with, and your current boyfriend will be with the person whom he really deserves.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Many women think it will be easier to move on after a heart-breaking breakup if they start dating someone else. But little do they realize that it will only make things more difficult for them. If you are still recuperating after a breakup, do not try to find solace in someone else. You might end…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6,"featured_media":713,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[237],"tags":[],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":237,"label":"Relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/www.getmyexbacknow.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/engagement-2268947_1280-1024x682.jpg",1024,682,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Jenny","author_link":"https:\/\/www.getmyexbacknow.com\/author\/jennystrosser\/"},"comment_info":42,"category_info":[{"term_id":237,"name":"Relationship","slug":"relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":237,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Whether you're struggling with communication, conflict resolution, or simply want to learn how to be a better partner, we can help. Check out our blog for articles on relationships and get tips from relationship experts.","parent":0,"count":47,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":237,"category_count":47,"category_description":"Whether you're struggling with communication, conflict resolution, or simply want to learn how to be a better partner, we can help. Check out our blog for articles on relationships and get tips from relationship experts.","cat_name":"Relationship","category_nicename":"relationship","category_parent":0}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.getmyexbacknow.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/708"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.getmyexbacknow.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.getmyexbacknow.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.getmyexbacknow.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/6"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.getmyexbacknow.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=708"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.getmyexbacknow.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/708\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4021,"href":"https:\/\/www.getmyexbacknow.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/708\/revisions\/4021"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.getmyexbacknow.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/713"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.getmyexbacknow.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=708"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.getmyexbacknow.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=708"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.getmyexbacknow.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=708"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}