#6. Be Transparent<\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\nDon\u2019t lie or do not try to deceive your boyfriend. He deserves to know the truth. There shouldn\u2019t be anything hidden between you. Make sure you choose your words carefully, without being too harsh. It\u2019s better to decide beforehand what you\u2019re going to say, and how you\u2019re going to say it. You can rehearse in front of the mirror and prepare yourself before you speak.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n#7. Be Polite, But Firm<\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\nIf you\u2019ve made up your mind about ending this relationship and starting fresh with your ex, then you need to be firm, but polite at the same time. You may get emotional seeing him break down, but don\u2019t be weak and change your mind. It won\u2019t lead to a fulfilling relationship for either of you.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/figure>\n\n\n\n#8. Be Careful About Trying to be Friends<\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\nLet\u2019s face facts. It\u2019s difficult to be \u201cjust friends\u201d with an ex. Once you break up, you shouldn\u2019t look back. Remaining friends will not help your boyfriend get over you. This will not only hamper the progress with your ex, but also prevent your current boyfriend from moving on completely.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n#9. Try Not To Make Him Feel Bad About Himself<\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\nTry not to tell him anything that will make him feel he is not worth you. That can deliver a blow to his self-confidence. Tell him that it\u2019s not his fault that you are breaking up. Don\u2019t put the blame on him, and point out his faults. Try to sound as reasonable as you can.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n#10. Give Him Some Space<\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\nAfter you break the news to him, he may want to be left alone. Give him that space, and don\u2019t try to be overly concerned as that will make him weaker. If he is still not ready to give up on you, try to push him away gently without being too rude. However, you might need to be a bit firm at the same time else he might become persistent.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\nBreaking up is a painful process, whether it is you who is doing the breaking up or your boyfriend. Often the only consolation is that time heals everything. Maybe a year later you will the guy you really wanted to be with, and your current boyfriend will be with the person whom he really deserves.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Many women think it will be easier to move on after a heart-breaking breakup if they start dating someone else. But little do they realize that it will only make things more difficult for them. If you are still recuperating after a breakup, do not try to find solace in someone else. 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